June 26, 2017 Paul Thandi

The mystery of entropy and how to override it. I believe that we all know that familiar junction of self-disappointment. Where we set our own goals and allocate time, the worst part is that even at times we show up but never do what is expected. We don’t fail to do this key activities because we don’t know or understand the rewards of our commitment. We actually need to do this things to move the current status of our life to the next level, yet we sit there and do nothing about it. The dilemma releases more disappointment with our selves than…

June 14, 2017 Paul Thandi 2Comment

Challenges are part of life and we can only decide which problem is worth spending our time and resources solving. Often we are dealing with the frustrating results of our actions and life keep us busy trying to put out fires. If only we invest just some focus on ourselves and understand why we keep ending up where we are then we begin to become the solution. ………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………. Our body is made of a system that is supported by more systems within. The whole body works in unison to give health and balance, all factors within and without. That is…

January 27, 2017 Paul Thandi

We miss out on people because we judge too fast too harshly. “People don’t think they stereotype. They don’t conclude, they categorize. They don’t calculate, they assume”. These are some of the best words by Harry Beckwith and Christine Clifford in their book, “The Art of Selling Yourself” that have summarized the nature of our relationships with people. If this phrase defines you then you have been missing out on the most precious resource in the whole universe, people. We don’t miss out on people because we don’t know that much about them. With this virtual-social world we are living…

November 9, 2016 Paul Thandi

As human beings, the stories we subconsciously tell ourselves about our circumstances, about others, and about life in general drastically changes how we feel.  If the stories are positive, we tend to feel good.  If the stories are negative, we tend to lose hope. Of course, there’s more to feeling good than just being positive.  The details of your present reality matter and make a difference, but generally speaking, you’re not going to have a good day today if you’re hell-bent on telling yourself otherwise. To a degree you know this already, right?  But there’s more… The stories we tell…